Sometimes it sucks, living with someone whose moral compass always points to True North. Okay, truth be told, it only sucks, becuz my moral compass doesn't always point to True North. Nope, sometimes my compass spins wildly around and around and around, before landing on North. Not his, his magnetic pull is strong and true, straight to True North, every time. It's not that I am envious or jealous that he is able to make moral decisions, with little, to no effort, that he just knows what is, "the right thing to do", and does it. No, my issue with it, is more the shame, that I do not possess this skill. I get angry with myself for being weak, becuz deep down I do know what "the right thing to do" is, I just don't wanna do it! Not wanting to do it, doesn't ever seem to be an issue for him. It sucks cuz he calls me out. It sucks cuz he's right.
Sometimes it's awesome living with someone whose moral compass always point to True North. When he gives me advice, I always trust it, cuz his Moral Compass is always True North, he can't give bad advice. And when he points out, "the {obvious} right thing to do" he does it with no judgement.
I appreciate that I always have him to help me make the right choices and to never judge me becuz I do not want to make the right choices.
An interesting side note: I do not possess a physical sense of direction either. I am always getting lost. I struggle to find my way to places I've been many, many times before. He on the other hand, knows a million ways to get to the same place. He can actually read/use a compass and find his way home in the deep, dark woods.
Coincidence...?????